Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Loss

Late last night we received word that Debbie, Doug's oldest sister, was not doing well.  Doug was able to connect with his family via telephone and even speak a few words to Debbie as she lay fighting for her life in the hospital.  We got word this morning via the Caring Bridge site that the Dr.s have said that it is likely she only has hours to live.  Her fragile lungs have been valiant in their fight against this horrible disease and yet in the end, the cancer has become too much.  Our earthly lives will never, ever be the same without Debbie in them, but I know that I stand among the myriad of people who are so thankful that they got to know Debbie.  We rejoice in the hope that is ours through our faith in Jesus Christ that we will all be reunited one day.  We are grateful to see Deb's earthly suffering end and yet we are all so devastated by losing her that it's a bit surreal at the moment.  Of course the miles that separate us at this time are excruciating. 
It is the middle of the night in Minnesota right now (7.30 a.m. in Stockholm) so we likely won't talk to anyone until early afternoon today.  Our hearts are heavy and sad.  Please continue to pray for Debbie's peace and comfort, for Doug's parents who are facing an unspeakable loss, and for the entire family as we let a beloved sister go into the arms of her eternal home.

7 comments:

  1. I am so very sorry, Jodi. My prayers are with you, Doug, Debbie, and the rest of your family. May you all sense God's peace among you at this very difficult time.

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  2. We are praying for you and your family.

    May God's love and care be present at this hard time.

    Love,

    The Ramgren's

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  3. so sorry - praying for you today...

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  4. Hugs from all of us, Jodi. Keeping all of you and your extended family in our prayers, Jul & the boys, xo

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  5. Dear Friends...thank you so much for your love and support. It's late now on Wednesday here in Sweden and no new news. We wait, and pray, and put our hope in Christ. I really do trust that right now even though the earthly pain of loss is so searing. Just treasure that you checked in with me today. Jules...you are amazing with all you continuing to face. Loads of love to you and the boys...a big lick hug from Tanner to the little guys!

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  6. Thoughts and prayers are with you all...

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  7. I am sorry, too. Debbie was one of my favorite teachers. I remember feeling really special when I was the "Sunshine" person of the day. I've always enjoyed bumping into her in unexpected places over the years. More than once it was on a walk around one of "the lakes". I pray that she will not suffer more and that you and Doug feel God's presence even though you are so far away.

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